Just to be yourself

This for a while, I contact to a lot about friendship, I suddenly feel, the friendship in some people's accounts for the component, seems to think I usually to many many times.

I found that the trapped for friendship, angered by the heart has two factors. One factor is a lonely, another factor is too lack of confidence. Loneliness makes a man put all life is put in the center of gravity of the friendship, lack of confidence that a person on friendship swayed lost to the extreme degree, so that if you lose the friendship, and they can't find yourself.

No one does not know, but, in an important I met several for friendship angered friends trapped after, I feel that if a person rely too much on friendship, that he from the friendship of the proceeds for not happy, but more distress.

We often talk in stressed that "a man happy to rely on others, you will be disappointed if you." The "others" includes all the people-friends, parents, children, husbands and wives, everything...

Making friends, should. Love friends, can.
Friends pay for all, worth!!!!!
But, you can't do without.

Not only to have his own, and to trust yourself!

So, I want to fix all often believe a concept, I urge everyone don't always actively to the desire for friendship, but to allow friendship automatically come.

Quoted a French film words, if a man friends, no friend!!!!!

You can with friends in a position to attract each other position, it's best to let yourself with enough to attract the first friend conditions. In other words, first to enrich himself, let oneself have light. So, in making friends, you can only get back into, can keep, you won't worry for friendship, not nervous all the day.

In other words, to appeal to make friends with, and don't give grace or the obsequious method to ask friends.

Don't hope everyone is your friend, friendship should listen to its nature.